I asked my darling husband Mike, the Mister behind this operation, some questions, and he answered very honestly. With him, there's no messing around, he'll tell you what is what. I find his answers fascinating, especially his answers about my blog and social media. We've talked about my blog before but it was interesting reading his take on the direct questions about it.
My questions are in bold:
1.)
How do you feel about me having a blog? Honestly, the parts I like deal more with the issues Lydia has had with her tip-toe walking. I feel the blog must be a great resource for other mothers in your shoes. But the majority of it ... I feel is too personal. I feel like having parts of our daughters' lives or pictures of them out there in the "cloud" is too personal. I worry more about the disconnect between people "reading" about our lives and not BEING a part of our lives.
2.)
Have I ever over-shared on the blog? Have I ever embarrassed you or shared something that you wish I would have kept private? Yes, you have over-shared but you have never embarrassed me. I do a good job of that on my own. Sometimes I don't like pictures of the girls posted. Again, they are ours. Random people reading your blog don't need to see our kids. People close to us will get a Christmas card with a picture.
3.) What’s my favorite possession right now? Starbucks Cinnamon Via packs.
4.) What makes me happy? Crafting. Starbucks. Sleeping in. Not having to bathe the kids. Polar Pops. Rob Pattinson.
5.) What makes me mad? The biker guy across the street who revs his bike past our driveway twenty times a day.
6.) How would you describe my style? You are the master at rocking a good cardigan. You look best in red. Your style is like Claire Danes in My So Called Life.
7.)
We often joke that Arlene is just like me and Lydia is just like you. I think it’s awesome that the girls are taking to our personalities. But it’s also scary, in a way. We’re probably going to have trouble with Arlene when she’s older, huh? Arlene is already an issue. She acts like she is 16. I will have to chain her up during her high school years. I can see it now...her pulling the tears out...shutting down when I say no...demanding high school fashion items. I cherish this time right now...
8.) What are my best attributes? You are a crafty, independent woman. I feel you have made your own career and success in life. You are quiet, yet don't take mess from people. You are honest and a great mother.
9.) When you think of my career long-term, where do you see me working, what do you see me doing? I see you quitting your job and crafting from home full-time. I do not see you working much longer.
Maybe I see you moving on to do PR at the state level.
10.) Do you think I spend too much time online? No. But you do have too many eggs in a basket online. To much in the cloud. Blog, tweets, Facebook.
11.) When I start talking about my “online friends” do I sound loony? No, they are your network. But again, people that live close enough to us, you should see. Which you do. People who you are close to online should have the same connection in their own real life.
12.) What’s your thoughts on Twitter? I have never understood it. Never will do it. Honestly it is one of the more selfish of all technologies. A status update on Facebook is enough...and most people do THAT too much. But tweeting? That is a mess. Why do I care what so and so is thinking RIGHT NOW? Do people honestly think they are THAT important? Sorry to rant on this one. But Twitter will fade away soon. I hope.
13.) Is there anything about me that other people would think is funny – a random fact or story or something? Wendy will frequently not believe me when I tell her something. Such as: "we don't need spaghetti, we have four boxes at home." She will then buy the spaghetti anyway, seemingly just to spite me. Then to come home and find ten boxes of spaghetti and not acknowledge that Mike told her so. This scenario is the scene so much in our home. Mike says something ...Wendy does not believe Mike.
12.) How excited are you about the news that we’re trying hard to not get TOO excited about?! Not as excited as I thought I would be. Honestly.
13.) Sometimes I go crazy with stress and trying to do too much too quickly – how do you put up with me? Rolls off most times. I do get irritated sometimes though. I feel you create a lot of your own stress though by having too many balls in the air. Drop a couple.
14.) Five words to describe me? Pretty. Smart. Calming (to me). Independent. Real.
15.) What should be my theme for tomorrow’s Etsy Favorites Wednesday list? Horror films that Mike wants people to appreciate more. Popcorn themed items. Etsy items made by men. Etsy fav t-shirts.
16.) Is there anything else you’d like to add? So glad I found you and am proud of everything you do.
How sweet is he? A big
thank you to Mr. Couple More Hours for taking the time to write these answers. He's just too nice to me sometimes, believe me. I put him through the ringer quite regularly. His mention of the "online cloud" is interesting, isn't it? And how hilarious - Rob Pattinson makes me happy, hahahahaaa! Sure, he does, but so does my
husband!